I get really confused by guys…
I got the sex part down… Like I got that they just want fucking sex from you… They don’t know how to care about a woman… They don’t know how to treat a woman…
You know? I got that part down… But I just don’t get… That’s stupid because obviously that’s it… All they want is to get their dick wet…
And here I am… I find a guy… They start seeming like they’re interested…. And then I start seeing that it’s like they’re waiting for me to chase them…
Like… The audacity… You dumb motherfucker… You think you have shown me enough worth or reason to chase you? Are you kidding me? You haven’t done shit boy… Why the fuck am I gonna chase you? Why am I gonna text you first? Why?
You have given me nothing… You have shown me absolutely nothing of what’s in store or what I have seen I don’t want… Because I ain’t down for the fuckbuddy shit… And that’s all I’m usually seeing… So I’m gonna bounce… You know?
But then they text me… “why didn’t you text me?” I’m like… bro… You didn’t fucking text me… And it’s just like this cycle… And they’re idiots and I’m not gonna chase them…
I mean… If you show me you got your shit together… You got your finances together, You got a good job… You’re saving money for retirement… You aren’t spending on bullshit… You have good productive hobbies and maybe you’re talented and creative as a bonus… And… You’re showing me that you have time for me… That’s a big one… Most people don’t have time… They don’t have time… They want to fuck you but they don’t have time for anything else…
So if you show me you got time to like sit and talk for hours… Because that’s my fucking foreplay… Like that’s my turn on… You really want to know me… You want to know who I was… Where I’m going… Who I want to be… That’s hot… So show me that you have time for me… Show me that you want to devote some of it to me… Because I’m always left feeling like nobody want’s to devote any time to me… And I’m over here… The Hopeless Romantic… Starting to like someone and I will devote all my time to you… That’s all I want… Is like a best friend slash lover… You know… Like… I will give you all my free time…
But um… I know that’s probably an unhealthy red flag or something… But I’m an introvert… Like… Honey… I don’t go out and party… That’s not fun… That’s draining as fuck for me and I already work in a job that is draining as fuck Socializationally…
But anyways… Yeah… Show me some stuff boy… Show me that you have it in you to compliment me… Or make me feel beautiful… And not in a sexual way… But like that I’m beautiful on the inside… And you’re gonna stick around forever because of it… It doesn’t matter what I look like on the outside… You know… Like show me that… Show me that you can potentially fall in love with me or something because that’s my end goal… I know it doesn’t happen right away… But like if that’s definitely not a possibility or like there’s no chemistry moving in that direction… Why the fuck do I want to chase you…
Bro Wake up… You gotta learn to text her… Show her that you’re interested… Do nice things for her To show that you care… Talk to her…
Oh my god… That’s a fucking big one… Just fucking talk to her… Talk to her about you and your life and your past and talk to her about her and her life and her past and enjoy it… If you don’t… Get the fuck out… But if you enjoy it… You Should… You should like the girl and you should enjoy that shit?
And then you should probably ask her to be your girlfriend… Before you try to fuck her… You know… Like show her that you want to give her more than just mediocre dick…
You know…
Like Yeah…
Anyways…
Um…
That’s my rant…
Thanks for listening;